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anonymous
writes:Hi I am twenty four years old and in love with a girl who also says that she loves me. we have been together for two months now and have made love twice.The problem is that when I asked her to tell me about the guy I thought she had broken up with, she confessed to me that she loves us both. More so, her other guy as she claims is in a coma but she has not gone to see him. She insists that she loves me but am confused because I love her too. plz advice Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2009): Unfortuantly there isn't much you can do... she is the one who needs to make a choice.. She obviously loves that man very much and is trying to move on with you... but she may not be able to just yet... I understand how you feel but, I can't help but think that you may as well be in a coma too... she's waiting for him and your waiting for her...I mean how do you end something special with someone when you didn't want it to end... Unlike death or breaking up where a decision is absolute... both of these people love each other still (even in unconciosness)... so she either has to stand by him or move on...
You must make the same decision... stand by her and wait for her to love you and let him go... or start living your life and tell her "when your ready"...
I can't help but wonder, out of 3 people who are comotose which one of you will start to live life instead of waiting for life to start?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2009): two months isnt as solid is you would think. how long was she with coma boy? i wouldnt put your heart out there just yet, she may not really love you. she could just be using you to feel better.
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