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writes:HeyI have a girlfriend who is extremely depressed.... Basically since college got over she did not get any job and has been jus sitting at home .. Her parents aint supportive either and they jus keep on taunting her.. I have been with her for 2 years now .. She has become too negative about everything cause of which we have regular fights .. Extremely small things she would have never bothered her before tick her off now .. I am too getting effected by all this and sometimes seems too much to take .. She wants me there but when i am there we are somehow always fighting .. This is relationship is starting to depress me now .. But i dont want to leave her in this state when she has no one other than me to support me .. plzzz help !!!
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (19 May 2009):
This is a really tough one.
I think you have to talk to her and tell her that you love her and will stay with her but you are having trouble coping with it.
She is not well at the moment and she needs to understand this too.
Your best bet is just to really really help her get a job. That is going to be key to getting her better.
See if you can get her some voluntary work / an internship / anything to get her out of the house and away from her parents and into the real world.
Good Luck!! xx
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