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writes:well im in love with this girl. and she loves me too she says. and well we do everything together and we do everything, like we are going out, we hold hands and cuddle and make love to each other. but she wont date me. she says the time isnt right and theres the distance. and we live like 30 miles away from each other and we only get to see each other on the weekends. so pls i need to know what she wants! help me out. Reply to this Question
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries  +, writes (19 May 2009):
 she wants all the relationship stuffbut not the tie down of a relationship you're better off with out her really.i mean she tells you she loves you but how can she if she doesn't date you?you seem a decent enough guy cut her off as mpforlife says she'll react and want you back but it's just for all the relationship stuff with out the relationship i mean you guys live like 30 miles apart as you've said how do you know she isn't with another guy? like doing the same thing to him as she is to you?don't let this tie you down don't wait around for her go out and find someone who is worthy of you and all the love you have to give.hope this helps hun.chin up :)
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reader, mpforlife +, writes (19 May 2009):
 you should slowly cut it off. when she sees the distance is greater she will react. go out have fun and if you find someone new so be it. its gonna be hard i know. but do you want to chase a women that is unavailable to you completely?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2009): She wants a quick fix! She loves you as a friend not as a lover so unfortunately this is the best your going to get from her. She sounds like she is in denial with the relationship and may feel like she is drowning when you mention the would commitment. Stay and have fun or walk and find someone else who satisfy your needs.
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