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writes:well here goes. im living with a guy that at the beginning wanted a real relationship. now he says he doesn't wont to fall in love and now he only has feelings of a friend. he waited for 7 months to tell me this. what gives? now an old boyfriend has got in touch with me and wants to try again. i don't know what to do. i ask him if he was serious. he said yes. i have a trust issue with men now a days. i don't know if i should try with the one i'm living with or with the ex boyfriend. i have always cared and thought about him. i actually loved him. or should i say the heck with both of them? Reply to this Question
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reader, PeanutButter +, writes (19 May 2009):
 If you need to ask, you may already know the answer.
While it might be nice to re-visit the ex boyfriend, there i a reason he is "ex" and so it may be nice to work on a friendship for now with him and see where it might go in the future, but knock the idea of a reconciliation as far as a relationship goes for now.
If the guy you're currently with doesnt know if his head is in it, let alone his heart, its really not worth dragging it out until it in the ground.
Maybe you should walk away from both of them and spend some time with yourself and re-discover you for a little while - sound cliche but you will feel better and think a lot cleaer for it.
Good luck!
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