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*nescaredman
writes:ok ya'll heres my deal im roughly 35 years old, and male i am in a relationship (a fairly new one) we have had sex roughly 4 times, but the past two times, we went to have sex, yesterday and today , it was up, it was strong and seemed ready to go, upon assuming the position, it went flacid and i cannot explain it i have always due to medical condtions had some kind or problem weather it be cant keep it up for to long or it wont go down (both have happened as a direct result of medications and mecial problems)now for the past two days it just seems hopeless and i am scared i am a single father of a beautiful 22 month old baby, my fiancee yes fiancee (we havent been together but almost 2 months) we connected right away i was up until january 29th in a relationship for 3 years wqith a woman who kept me miserable yet she did give me the best thing ever (my son)drugs were more important to her, anyways my fiancee is wonderful she is my age, she is still going to school she is sensitive, caring, loving, genuine, smart, sweet, sexy jsut a well rounded gal she loves my son,he loves herbut how can i expect this wonderful gal to marry me if i cant keep an erection sex is a big factor in any relationship yues ofcourse love comes first but its not enough we all have wants desires and needs and right now i am starting to worry that i will not be able to meet hers and that is important to me i am just scared maybe i am over reacting maybe not im not sure whats going on or whyi am hoping its not medical yet i am hopping it is medical and addressableso ppl please pray for me like i said i am 35 yrs old, my sex life has been better in the last 3 years then it has been between 1989 and 2004 its been crazy and i was loving it but not im erked i have viagra here, i took it once for kicks and giggles,did nothingmaybe it will work next time but i dont know anything bout it to say if it will or wont please ppl (christians,pray for me)
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reader, mrs.smith81608 +, writes (19 May 2009):
It could be linked to performance anxiety, (possible) or like you said your medication. I agree with other posters that if she were as great of a woman, she will understand. There are plenty of other ways to TCB with actually doing the deed and both of you can be satisfied! ;)
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reader, lil crazy +, writes (19 May 2009):
Naw I think it will turn out fine ur just over reacting a bet give it some time and even if u think its a problem talk it with ur wife ur married for a reason and u should let her know hey technology thiese days nothing is in possible don't worry and good luckkkkk
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