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male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I have got so much great advice on this website, I don't feel very uncomfortable asking this. I have a minor issue to overcome, I get 'over excited' at nothing which leads me to be insecure.I'm currently getting to know a lady better, when ever we are walking in a park or in the roads, I get involuntary erections, I don't lust for her as I really care for her more, sex isn't my main objective right now. However since I am not very emotional, but i am making a big effort to hug her, hold her etc, but when these bulges come up, I feel insecure to try more incase she see's it or feels it. I don't want her thinking I'm only after that and can't wait, or just a creep. Anyone know how i can prevent this, or if i should tell her, ladies, what would you think of a guy who had this problem?I really like her, but these erections make it difficult for me to be more affectionate with her because it may send the wrong message to her.
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reader, Battista +, writes (8 March 2011):
This is a natural reaction and most sensible women will appreciate that fact. It's your physiology. I don't think most women would be too worried by it, if at all. If you are really concerned you could try masturbating before you know you are going to be seeing her which might help a bit.
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