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female
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26-29,
*iskmusk
writes:Hi. I used to text and meet up with this guy who lives up the road from me. He's 17 and I'm 15. Before he lied to me and said he didn't have a girlfriend and we kissed. When I found out he had a girlfriend I stopped talking to him and completely blocked him off and I even changed my number. My friend also knows him and he contacted her and asked why I wasn't replying to his texts and she told him I changed my number. I decided to talk to him again but only as mates and he was okay with that, but then around 3 weeks later he broke up with his girlfriend and one of his friends told me that it was because of me that he broke up with her. Recently though my friend started to get suspicious and she told the police that she was worried that 'sexual' things were going on between us and that it was wrong of him to take advantage of me like that. So the police came and told my mum and they investigated into the situation and gave him a warning and told him to stay away from me.Earlier on today I went to the shop where he works with one of my friends because she needed to buy some things. I didn't look anywhere near the section that he works just in case he was there. One of his friends fancies me and so I got a text from him asking me out. I shouted this out to my friend outside shop not even bothering to care about who heard. So we went into the shop, got what we wanted and left. About two minutes after we left my friend told me that he was staring at me and leaning out of the car that he was working on to look at me and when I screamed out that his friend had asked me out she said he looked shocked and his mouth was hanging open and then he turned his head away and looked disappointed. I'm confused about if he likes me or if he is angry with me because of the police. Please can I have your opinions?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (8 March 2011):
 Well first of if this guy was accused of having a sexual relationship with you and that was not the case, then I really think that you owe him a big apology and so does your friend. That is a very serious allegation to make if you only ever kissed him and your friend had no right in saying this to the police if it was untrue she should have came to you and asked you about it. This is really unfair on this guy and I really think you should apologise to him for causing him this grief.
Secondly yes it does sound to me like he does like you. Ok yes he was wrong for kissing you when he had a girlfriend. But yes it does sound like he does like you. He wanted to get to know you better and then he got questioned by the police am sure it made him angry but I bet it didnt stop him liking you and then to hear you shouting out that his friend asked you out must have hurt him and probably made him feel quite shocked that his own friend is asking out a girl that he likes and a girl that got him caught up with the wrong side of the law.
I guess it is up to you who you want to date, whoever you like then you are entiteled to date whoever you want. Just be careful that you dont start making enemies. Goodluck.
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