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writes:I have a question I am a 24year old woman that is attracted to older man mid thirties especially 36 37 year olds. I love the confort of a mature man. BUT i was wondering I am very self conscious and typically look like a always nice and dressed up. Some people say I have this "pornstar" look cause i have the big breast lips etc. My question is do older guys like this? or does this shy them away? I am a serious girl i have a graduate degree its just that the only way for me to feel confident is to hide behind my "good looks" as ppl call them. People consider me good looking, but would this not attract older man? I am very nice and never conceited but I happen to be attracted to an older crowd of man. NOT FOR MONEY.or for financial purposes i just love the confort of maturity. Fella tha are older? do you mind a younger woman being dressed up? I never really flaunt it or dress trashy, i just was wondering if older guys want someone that is dressed serious like hair in a bun and glasses type of thing. I mean I happen to always do my hair and people tell me you look like a doll but I want to attract older man, because i am serious inside. Should you dress down ?
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (8 March 2011):
 The simple question of whether "older" men (wow, I'm older than that) will like your porn star look can be answered in a simple manner: YES. Everyone likes to have a partner who looks incredibly gorgeous and looks like she will make a dirty thing or twenty-two in bed. To say otherwise is to lie.
You can like your woman with her wrinkles, all right (and she loves you even though you're a belly dancer). But that is not the question you're asking.
You may not be attracted to "dinosaurs" that young because of the money, but they will invariably suspect you are, unless they are extremely conceited and think that they still have "The Knack". Someone that age will take you anyways.
If you happen to have brains, well, that will be a plus.
Make sure your self-esteem does not rely on whether you have a great body. Because eventually looks will go away.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (8 March 2011):
 Sorry but I couldn't get passed the "the big breast lips"
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2011): Older does not mean more mature. There are TONS of mature young guys. They usually have a harder time getting women than the immature ones at your age.
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (8 March 2011):
 You may not be looking for an older man for financial reasons, but that doesn't mean that they might not be incredibly wary of pretty young gold diggers...
Where are you going to "attract" these older men? Depending on what age you're going for here you may have to go to an age appropriate venue, not just a nightclub... and you may need to do some approaching instead of just "hanging around".
And yes... I think you should dress as classy as possible, with not too much cleavage or upper thigh showing.
You won't need to go all librarian though.
Good-luck :)
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reader, Jjang19  +, writes (8 March 2011):
Because of your looks, all guys in the usual locations for pickups are just going to want you for your bodies. Since you have a graduates degree, try to get in on some more high-end university sociables and check out the crowd there. The club scene is just full of people wanting girls for their bodies
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2011): You should dress older and more conservatively.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2011): Well more likely if I see a woman that is dressed up in a more serious way, I think more about dating her. She seems to me that she is more mature.
When is see a woman with 'pornstar look'=lets call it that, I think about having sexual relationship with her.
I would suggest you tone it down a little bit.
Since I m older, I m not looking for any fling. So why would I search a woman that does't look that way. I mean clothes more often reflect personality. So why would i got for a woman that is looking like a 20 year old when I m looking for a relationship
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2011): You sound like a classy woman to me definitely and any man who is mature would take the time to get to know who you are as a person regardless of how you dress. Where I live women cover themselves entirely, so my mind is trained to not look at woman, but to know their mind. Personally, Ill take a woman no matter how she dresses...and if she chooses to dress up thats a bonus for me lol. Best on this.
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