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writes:To anyone that can help,I am so lost and feel so alone. My husband of 6 years and I have not been in a good place for a while. Many things have happend over the past 2 years that have put a strain on things. Just when I think things are ok, I don't know what happens to piss him off and then he hates me for weeks. According to him I am selfish. I work as a teacher full time, and have a young child and a house to take care of. I do not have a lot of time for me at all. We have always has a realtionship that we do what we want, he goes out when he wants (which lately is until 4 am 3xs week) I go out til about 10pm like once a month! He spends more time on porn, tv and work then me and I feel like Im dying. It hurts so bad, this silent treatment. I try and try to do things for him and try to talk but it just ends up with him complaing about me. Any advice would be great. Thank you
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (8 March 2011):
 You describe a seriously strained marriage for sure. particularly with husband's late-night escapades thrice a week. Too bad a child is involved, but based on your post, I think some serious discussion and maybe counseling is advisable. Don't know how to help except to take it very seriously.
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reader, coolbeans +, writes (8 March 2011):
 I am sorry you are going through this but relieved to know it's not just me. My fiance and I are basically in the exact boat. I am beginning to think that men are incapable of loving to the capacity that women do.
Communication is everything but it sounds like you two don't have that either. I try to communicate with mine and he gets angry and goes out drinking. It's very painful and lonely. I feel I have lost myself since we have been together.
Good luck and keep us posted!
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