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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I met this guy who is 14 years older then me . we worked together. so we started to hang out togther to find out that his lives with his girlfriend for over 13 years and they have a 11year old together . but i could stop hang with him because he understood me . So we did do anything for the longest time . But then we did. And we fell in love with each other . we have been doing this for 2 years and we stopped working with each other but we keep coming back to each other . Sad part is we got pregnant and had a miscarriage but he ask me to have abortion but i couldnt do that . but we keep seeing each other after and he still there . he has no job and his women takes care of him . but he want me to have a baby with him. Do you think he really loves me and is going to leave??
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2011): I have some questions for you, which should help you answer your own question:
1. How can you trust a man who is cheating on his wife and child?
2. Why would you want to be with a man who asked you to abort your child?
3. He is not supporting his wife and child, he is not working, do you really believe he's going to be a "different man" with you?
4. Should this man be allowed to father any more children when he does not support his daughter?
I can only say to you to please, for your own sake, turn your back on this man, keep walking and never look back.
He is a cheat, a liar, a user, ammoral and definitely not to be trusted. This type of man will move from woman to woman - you will simply be one of many.
Oh, and by the way, "we" did not get pregnant. "You" got pregnant, "you" endured the miscarriage, and he just hopped off back to his wife. Wake up and smell the coffee!
I wish you a happy, healthy and peaceful life.
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reader, TEM +, writes (8 March 2011):
 He may love you, but I don't think he is going to leave. He is unemployed and needs this woman for support. I am not sure why he would want to have a baby with you, as he has no means with which to support your child.
If you have a baby by this man, you will be on your own with it. You must consider that. Look out to the future. Do you think it is a good idea to bring a child into this situation? Think about a child growing up under these conditions. It is not fair to the child.
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