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writes:hi i had a bad problem with alcohol when my kids were 14 and 13. both left home one of there own accord and moved to their dads who they didnt see since they were 3ys old and the other a girl left cuz social services put such a strain on us we ended up in a big fight and she ended up moving to her dads where her sibling was. it didnt take long till she was running away continuously. it wasnt long till the police and social worked out that she didnt want to live with her dad and agreed to put her in voluntery foster care. she found me again last year (id been faulsly denied access to both my children) and we started started a good relationship again. now she wants to live with me again but i havent got the finances. im out of work live in a 1 bed flat and im so scared. she is 16 wants her b/f who is 18 who she has only known 2 months 2 move in and i want it just to be me and her again. i no i sound selfish but i lost those years. what can i do? i want her home but this is tearing me apart Reply to this Question
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (8 March 2011):
 Tell her there is no room for a male in your one bedroom flat, that there is always room for her, but at this stage of your life you are unable to accommodate her boyfriend.Many 16 year old girls are very selfish, and she might just be looking for cheap/free accommodation for them both, and if this is true it can only lead to further heartbreak for you.Explain that you will understand if she cant accept your offer of accommodation just for her, and ask that she also understand your difficult circumstances.Good luck with this!
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