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writes: I am one sexually frustrated woman and don't know what to do! I still think about my ex a lot, and we had a rather sexy convo via e mail last week, and it has happened before. I don't want him back and he lives so far away. I never initiate contact (or very rarely). The thing is, I know I could do better and want to. I would only want to sleep with someone if I really care for them or love them. I am not up for casual sex at all as I don't get anything from it. How do girls overcome this? I know you hear it as a problem for guys, but some days it drives me nuts. I think it must be my hormones (I am only in my early 30's). I occasionally watch porn but I don't think that helps it tends to make me more horny then I play with myself - nothing wrong with that I hear you say! So how do you overcome being sexually frustrated? My ex says he wants to see me sometime, but I don't think that is a good idea - I know I would just rip his clothes off and want it so bad. Grrr help I need help...From one horny woman!!
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reader, uncle bob  +, writes (9 March 2011):
 A good imagination, and electronic devices!If that doesn't work, there are also Male escort services.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (9 March 2011):
 You can overcome this by finding a suitable mate. Going back to your ex is a bad idea.
In the meantime, you'll have to resort to "Good Vibes".
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (9 March 2011):
 It is totally normal how you are feeling, yes everyone always talks about men but women have sex drives as well, and there needs need to be met as well. I agree with you I dont think it would be a good idea for you to meet up with you ex and also it is good that you do not want to have casual sex. It is better to wait for someone you care about.
Therefore you need to find yourself a man I guess. Get an active social life go out more and meet new people. Try and meet a single man that you can get to know and who knows what might develop.
I guess the only way you can ease your sex drive while you are on your own is to masterbate. Watch porn or do whatever you feel comfortable with. Maybe look in to some vibrators and dildos and try new things out on your own. There is nothing shameful in it and it will allow you to over come some of your frustrations while you find yourself a man.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2011): LOL!!! Same sentiments as you and I am 'in touch' with an ex for the very same reason. I keep my heart and libido separate otherwise could end up a mess but you only live once so go on, ring him!!! :)
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reader, JDinCali  +, writes (8 March 2011):
 I feel your pain. How do you overcome? WITH PATIENCE! lol. Seriously, keep "actively" busy with things that you love to do. Working out helps tons; lots of cardio and strength training to get out your "Grr's" of sexual frustration. Start going to the guym and occasionally when you see a guy that you like, you have to be assertive and say, "Hello, spot me?". Go for what you like and don't repeat past mistakes. You're right on track with saying no to calling your Ex --don't do it! Be strong. :)
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