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writes:Lately I began thinking to myself wow My life is pretty great, then suddenly things have been beginning to change, My friends are starting to seperate from me, suspicious I question this, Only to find out what they truely think of me, If Im happy they find me annoying, If I'm sad they call me depressive and boring, If Im upset and want to talk to someone I'm either whineing or an attention seeker, It seems no matter what I do or say people are starting to hate me and I'm beginning to feel isolated and dunno what to do "/ Also Its not just that but some friends begin to make silly little spiteful remarks on silly things that don't matter, either tell me to stop whineing or to stop being stupid, or I'm think etc, I just dunno what to do anymore without feeling so upset, I even cried last night and I don't cry at anything, I'm feeling weak and alone, will anyone help me :( Reply to this Question
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reader, AlwaysHereToHelp! +, writes (8 March 2011):
 Hello :)
I have been through exactly the same thing. and please i know how hard it feels but be strong. these friends are no good for you they will just drag you down and make you feel terrible about yourself, even if you try to change and try not to be sad or too happy they will never be satisfied with the real you.
It happened to me i kept getting critized all the time by my friends the ones who should love you for who you really are, it ended up in me being diagonosed with depression and being stupid and trying to take my own life.
Dont let them pull you down that far, if they are going to be like that the best thing is to just let them go because if they will just willingly leave you they cant be that good friends can they ?
I know it can feel hard and you can feel like your loseing everything but your not stay strong. go out and meet some new people, people who are worth bothering with go to some partys to meet some new people even move school/colladge if it helps.
And if they keep critizeing you for everything they do do it back to them and remind them that no one is perfect.
I promise you no matter how much you try to change for them they will never be happy so just find some other people to hang out with their not worth the hassle.
Hope this helps x
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reader, StarryEyes101 +, writes (8 March 2011):
 You need to get yourself some real friends. Distance yourself from them. Ignore them. And always smile 'coz it won't half piss them off ;)
You are at a difficult age, everyone has crap days in their life you are not on your own. But if they can't be happy for you or be there for you... What kinda friends are they? And do you really want them to bring you down?
I hope this helps
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