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writes:I have read all the Q and ans for the situation in which the girl is not virgin and her boy is getting mad for that thing. I have similar problem, but in all those posts i have realized that those girls are behaving good and innocent now. I just wonder and this is my Q that do these kind of girls really stay true to there new boys in there life or do they have learned a lot to play with there new partners. Reply to this Question
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (9 March 2011):
 "there" should be "their" my 3rd grade teacher is rolling in her grave.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2011): Virginity and faithfulness are not very related. There are millions of people who have sex outside of marriage and never cheat on anyone. There are some virgins who later cheat on their spouses.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (8 March 2011):
Some girls stay true to there significant other whether they were virgins or not when they met them AND some girls do not. You've lived long enough to know there are no hard and fast rules when it comes to human behavior.
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reader, muso888  +, writes (8 March 2011):
This is an awful question. Just because a girl is not a virgin when you met her does not mean she is in anyway incapable of being faithful. Did she cheat on her last boyfriend? If you are asking if a cheater can change, that depends on the person. But if you are asking if a girl has not saved herself especially for YOU then you are the one with the problem, not this girl.
Are you a virgin? If not, then have you changed, and are you able to be faithful? If you are a virgin, then if you sleep with this girl and then break up, will you never sleep with anyone ever again, and how would you feel about any girl you meet in the future judging you?
How you judge a person on their faithfulness and character should be on just that - their character and personality. Not with your male ego needing to know that you are the only person she has ever 'known'. Grow up.
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