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writes:What do i do when my girlfriend of 6 months doesn't trust me any more due to me just finding out a secret from my past? As soon as i found out the secret i told my present girlfriend and she is upset because i didn't tell her sooner but i am just aware of the news as she is...and now she doesn't trust me anymore....i don't know what else to do... Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2011): Ahhh, but who decides if something affects her or not? SHE has the right to decide that.
You have the right to refuse to answer questions. You don't have the right to lie to her. Nor do you have the right to be so deceptive that it amounts to lying.
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reader, Nime +, writes (8 March 2011):
 Yeah, if the secret is something like an STD, I would be pretty mad if I were your girlfriend.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (8 March 2011):
 What is this secret? Does it affect her?
If this secret doesn't have anything to do with her then she has no right to be upset and is really just overreacting. However, it depends on the secret.
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reader, maverick494 +, writes (8 March 2011):
What is the secret? You might not feel like telling, but I can't really advise you unless I know it or atleast know how big/important it was.
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