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writes:My boyfriend of 5 months and I got into an argument where he mentioned we need to pull back. SInce then we have not been talking to each other. It has been 11 days...What should I do? Be the mature one and talk it out or let him come to me since he's the one who initiated the pull back? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for your reply. I'm trying to be good and not call him. I miss him terribly. We never went that long without talking and it makes me feel like I'm loosing him with each day that pass. I wish I could resolve this :( and talk to him.
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reader, AlwaysHereToHelp!  +, writes (9 March 2011):
 Hello :)
Well do you think you have been abit to clingly and you have done something wrong. if so then you should make the first move and apolgize and get back together.
But if you think this is just his decisoin to have a break and you havent done anything that might want to make him have a break then let him come back to you. She how long he lasts ;)
Hope this helps x
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2011): No, he wants space and he initiated pulling back so he needs to reconnect without your "help".
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (9 March 2011):
 I think really the best thing you can do is to wait it out and see when he contacts you. He is the one that suggested pulling back therefore that is a sign that he needs some space right now. So I guess the best thing you can do is give him the space he needs and I am sure he will contact you when he is ready. Also with you not contacting him it will show him that you took what he said serious and that you can be independant. It has only been five months therefore I really do think you should just wait it out and see if he comes back to you. If he has suggested pulling back it is obvious things are moving to fast for him. So giving him space is the best option. Goodluck.
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