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Disappearing after a bad breakup

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Question - (8 March 2011) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Well, Im about to disappear. About 6 months ago my longtime boyfriend of 6 years decided to leave me for another woman. He moved right in with her when he left 'our' place. A couple weeks after that, I found out through an old friend he had been cheating with 'numerous' women thoughout the whole 6 years we were together. Heartbreak all over again.

Not being able to deal with anymore of this, I quit my job last week and have plans to move back to my hometown. I have secured a job there and am looking forward to getting my fresh start in 2 weeks. I also plan on changing my number as well. In the 6 months we have been apart, my ex has texted me every 2 weeks. He is pulling on my heart strings and in a couple weeks, it will all be over. I hope its the relief Im waiting for. Cutting the final ties so to speak.

I just need some support right now. Im not questioning my decision to move but, am wondering what happens next. I pray that after I change my number the contact stops. I doubt he would go even further to contact me if he realizes I have changed my number or hears I've left town.

Anyone know a similar story? How did it turn out? Did moving on become easier? Was it a good fresh start? After 6 months, I really hope I can put it behind me now.

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