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writes:I have been hanging out with this guy for a couple of months now, and we have been having an amazing time, I heard a rumor that he slept with my friend, I confronted him about and he SWORE to me he did not, explaining everything, and I just got it confirmed that he has been sleeping with her behind my back, why is he lying to me all the time, and going out with me during the day he won't stop contacting me, why is he lying to me, from what I heard they have been together for a couple of weeks. Reply to this Question
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reader, Eilish  +, writes (9 March 2011):
 Get rid of him. There is no use in being with a liar. Because if you ever got in a serious relationship with this guy, how would you know if he ever tells the truth?
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reader, Boy Blue +, writes (9 March 2011):
So you are just is friend or his gf or what?
I get that he is lying but it's probably none of your business anyway? Or you are dating him? I don't really know where the two of you stand.
Also be sure and careful where you hear your information, he may be lying but where you heard your information may be unreliable as well.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (9 March 2011):
 He is obviously a bit of a player and that is why he is lying to you. He is getting the best of both worlds from you and your friend and he doesnt want it to end so he will continue to keep lying until he is caught out.
You need to tell him that you know he has been with your friend and maybe you and your friend could confront him together and then that way he will have no choice but to tell the truth.
My advice would be not to waste your time on a guy that acts like this. He has showing you he cannot be trusted as he is lying to you, therefore your best bet is to ask him not to contact you in the future and find yourself someone who is honest and that will treat you properly. Goodluck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2011): Poor you, but kick his sorry ass to the curb!! A couple of months and he does this?? Imagine what he'll do in a year's time? You deserve better, you know you do. Good luck.
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