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41-50,
*hilippa
writes:Finally my boyfriend want's to do everything to make me happy(Now) .I afraid it's too late .He has hurt me so much that it's just too hard for me to trust him again When he said something ,he did something hurtful else ,for years .I am thinking of leaving .I really don't care even if he really tries because when I think of him I just remember painful memories .Each time I gave this guy a chance it's was a waste of time .Should I give one last chance or on to the next one ?
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reader, Boy Blue  +, writes (8 March 2011):
On to the next one. I don't think even I need to say why
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2011): i honestly think that if a guy has been mistreating you for years... he will not change. maybe he will with the next woman, but not with you. hes so used to you forgiving him and staying with him. i think u should leave. if he cares for you he will do everything he can to make u stay...maybe that will wake him up and realize what he had.
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reader, uncle bob +, writes (8 March 2011):
 If you give him another chance, you are, in fact,
giving him permission to hurt you again. Your telling him,
"It's OK, I'll always be here for you"
If you allow him to hurt you again, you've only got yourself to blame.
Get away from this guy, he has no respect for you!
There are a lot of great guys out there who will treat you like a Queen.
You don't mention your age, but by posting the question you did, I'm guessing your relatively young. So keep this bit of advise with you at all times.
"Your going to pick through a lot of dirt, before you find that nugget of Gold". So keep searching, but search smart.
Your worth it!
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