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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I am a freshman in college and I like this very mature and nice boy who happens to be one of my good friends. I just realized how much I like him despite the fact that we are sort of different: I'm always out on weekends but he usually spends time with friends. Nevertheless, we are both passionate about the same stuff. But here is the problem: I know that he is going out with (or seeing) this other girl but I know they are not official. I don't want to sound mean but this girl is not pretty at all and I think that's great that he likes her because that tells me that he doesn't care about people's looks and I LOVE that about him. I really want to tell him that I like him but I don't know if I should. I don't wanna steal him from that girl but I don't wanna wait either because what if they become official? What should I do? He is my last chance!. I really like him. Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (9 March 2011):
 Well first off she may not be pretty to you but he may find her attractive. Everyone has different tastes in what they find attractive.
Ok well if they are not official then I think you should go for it and tell him how you feel. I guess you dont have anything to lose and at least he will know the truth. But when you do tell him explain to him that you know he is seeing someone else and that you respect that you just thought he deserved to know the truth and leave it at that. If he feels the same way well am sure he will tell you. Goodluck.
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