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writes:Basically, I have been talking to this boy for a few weeks now, he added me on a networking site after he seen me at a party. We have a lot of mutual friends and all of them have told me about him, all have said he is very nice and easy to get along with and everything about him is good really except for the fact that he has taken drugs in the past, i dont have a problem with this if he doesn't anymore but for all i know he might still. I know he only took them socially at a few parties and they were never especially bad drugs but i hate the idea of anyone doing that to their bodies and i don't want to get involved with someone who does. I do like him, infact he would be someone who is perfect for me? but i do not like that and i hope he doesn't anymore. Should i still give him a chance or should i stick to what i think? thanks :) xxx
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reader, sebaslookingforward  +, writes (9 March 2011):
Give him a chance. As you said, he might just took them for a little "fun". Forgive him , not everyone is perfect. If we loves you he will never do drugs again, so make him love you :)
Good luck, I hope the best for u
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reader, AlwaysHereToHelp! +, writes (9 March 2011):
 Hello :)
Well your very sensible for not wanting to get involved in drugs but i think you should give him a chance perhaps you should tell him about your strong views about drugs and how you hate the thought about them.
You should also tell him that you would never get involved with them just so hes clear about that. if he wants to make ago of this reltionship you should tell him to stop the drugs no matter how big or small they are. if he loves you then he should care about your feelings and not take anymore
Hope this helps xx
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