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female
age
30-35,
*tef02
writes:Hello everyone I need advice big time. Well I have a boyfriend I’ve been with for 7 years and we have a daughter whose 3. My boyfriend and I met when I was in middle school and we got pregnant at the age of 16 and had the baby and kept going to school. Recently in July I meet this guy that I’ve known way before my boyfriend, but I just ignored him because he seemed like a player. However, he would always find me on Myspace and I would decline his friend request. Then on July of 2010 he found me on Facebook and we started talking, we met in person for the first time, and after that I started developing feelings for him. We did start seeing each other more often and I would tell my boyfriend that I stayed longer at work. Weeks later, my boyfriend found out me and the other guy had seen each other and had sex, so he went crazy and the other guy knew about my boyfriend. They were talking stuff to each other, and then the guy stopped talking to me. 1 month passed and the guy texted me back. I told him I was mad at him still, and I texted him a month later. We started talking again and my feelings were getting so strong for this guy and I told him. This guy and I had our ups and downs and it wasn’t working out. After my boyfriend found out about the other guy, he would always check my phone even go on the website for t-mobile to check who I called, who I texted, and everything. Time passed, it was February and me and the guy were progressing. My boyfriend found out I started texting him and he called him and would talk s*** to him and the guy put up with it because he likes me and stuff. I have told my boyfriend that we should break up and he could see the baby and that it’s not working out, but he says no, he would change, etc. I told him I like someone else and it’s hard. I cried because he won’t leave. I gave up on kicking him out because he never leaves. I tell my mom since we live in my parent’s house and she used to defend him and still does.I try to see the other guy when I can because I don’t want him to know my daughter fully. I’m scared she would tell my boyfriend and drama would start again. I also do things for the other guy. I show him I care for him, I go out of my way to do things, but he doesn’t do anything to show me he cares. He only tells me he cares when I tell him the way I feel for him. I’m confused. Should I leave the other guy and fix things with the boyfriend???
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reader, GeeGee255 +, writes (11 March 2011):
 The solution is simple...
You need to pick which one you want to be with, now, before you lose them both.
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