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writes: Ladies...if you are with a man who is well endowed, what is it, exactly, that gets you most excited about sex with him from a purely physical aspect? If it is his size, what specifically about his penis is the most enticing? Seeing it and looking at it? If so, what exactly? the feeling that he is more "manly"? Oral? penetration and being "filled"? Stretching sensation? Something else? I realize it isn't entirely the penis that attracts women, but try to focus on the size aspect of your attraction for this answer. Reply to this Question
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (10 March 2011):
 Nietzsche was not well endowed, Birdy :-).
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2011): Tisha-1 makes a really good point, but as we all know...she forgot one thing when she wrote.
"Honestly, if men knew how little time we spent thinking about their penises. they'd probably be quite disappointed."
We men think about our penises enough to make up for the women not thinking about them very much.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2011): SIZE is overated.technique is the key.LoveGirl
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reader, Nime  +, writes (9 March 2011):
 "now that I think of it, "enticing " is not a word that I would apply for any size of penis... they remind me of some obscure sea creature, the kind you'd find in some cheap sushi joint."
CindyCares, your response is gonna make me die laughing!!!! So true! But I didn't want to say it... I mean, lady parts aren't that great looking either, lol.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (9 March 2011):
 Funny- now that I think of it, "enticing " is not a word that I would apply for any size of penis. At least from a purely aesthetic, visual point of view. Particularly in their flaccid state, they remind me of some obscure sea creature, the kind you'd find in some cheap sushi joint.
In fact, maybe the best thing about intercourse is that you don't have to look at the damn thing,LOL
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (9 March 2011):
 I think that Nietzsche's dick was shorter than your answer, Daniel.
Bwahaha. ;^D
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reader, Adorskable +, writes (9 March 2011):
 I think if the play pistol is well endowed it gives pleasure to the eyes. I wouldn't choose my man by his penis size though, and I wouldn't want one dangled in my face. I guess more women choose their man while they are still dressed, so in reality, most don't care about the size.
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reader, Danielepew +, writes (8 March 2011):
Tisha-1, since you're asking, here are two very good definitios of "endowment":
From the Wikipedia:
Endowment (in philosophy) refers to the innate capacities of an individual, group, or institution. An individual's "natural endowment" can be abilities, such as intelligence or strength, given at birth. An individual's "social endowment" can be abilities attributed to the individual's position within a social hierarchy.
According to Stephen R. Covey, author of The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People, there are seven human endowments. They are listed below:
Primary endowments:
1) Self-awareness or self-knowledge
2) Imagination and conscience
3) Volition or will power
Secondary endowments:
4) An abundance mentality
5) Courage and consideration
6) Creativity
7) Self-renewal
On the other hand, according to the Investopaedia,
What Does Endowment Mean?
A financial asset donation made to a non-profit group or institution in the form of investment funds or other property that has a stated purpose at the bequest of the donor. Most endowments are designed to keep the principal amount intact while using the investment income from dividends for charitable efforts.
Investopedia explains Endowment
Endowments provide ongoing benefits for those that receive them by earning a market rate of interest while keeping the core endowment principal intact to fund future years of scholarships, or whatever efforts the donor sought to fund. In some cases, a certain percentage of the assets are allowed to be used each year, so the amount pulled out of the endowment could be a combination of interest income and principal. The ratio of principal to income would change year to year based on prevailing market rates.
So I think the poster means he is a philosophical rich kid, and women love being with him (it feels like Nirvana).
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reader, OnlyException  +, writes (8 March 2011):
Ouch. Yep, that's pretty much the only thing on my mind when I see a large penis. Oh, and don't you dare bring that f***er near me. :)
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (8 March 2011):
 LMAO, Eyes. I will say the size question is really overdone. Poster, if you utilize the search bar in the top right corner, you will find millions of questions and answers already on this matter.
However, I will think back to my experience with what I considered to be a well-endowed man. It was my first well endowed man, so I was a little taken back by the size (length and girth). In general, I was already turned on so it wasn't like I wasn't going to be even more turned on by the physical aspect of his member. The sex was some of the most amazing sex I've ever had. He knew what to do, and the penetration was most pleasing. I guess if I had to pin point, it would be the feeling of being over-filled. But I look at overall performance. However, that feeling the next day wasn't so pleasant when I was extremely sore.
Why do you ask?
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reader, Nime +, writes (8 March 2011):
When I think of a well-endowed man I think,
"Oh, baby, look at those throbbing veins and giant penile papules! I'd like to inject some local anesthetic into my jaw and just choke on that hairy unwashed piece of meat, oh yeah. And then I can't wait to take that thing inside me until I'm so raw that I can't sleep with my legs shut and I feel like I've been stabbed in the uterus the next day."
Honestly, if I could press a button and permanently replace a man's penis with a pair of hands that give me back massages, I would.
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reader, happy24birthday +, writes (8 March 2011):
 Ooooh la la!! The thing that excites me most about sex with a well endowed man is most definitely the sensation of being "filled" as you put it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2011): Well from a purely physical point of view, ya in some ways size matters. But that doesn't mean bigger means better. Let me explain.
For me it is the length and girth that fits me best. There have been a few guys I have slept with whose size fits perfectly in me and it feels amazing.
There have been other guys whose penis is too long (This can be very painful because it always taps the end of the vag). Not enjoyable. There are also guys whose penis is tiny and basically you can't really feel it...I know, not a nice thing to say but it's true and it happens.
I am a very petite girl so it is not so much about size as it is about what size fits ME best. And there are certain guys who have the length and the girth that fits so perfectly that it makes sex absolutely amazing.
Every girl is going to look for something different because every girl has a different shape and size and will require a different fit to be fully pleasured. To each his own =)
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (8 March 2011):
 You know a day without a penis question is like a day without sunshine for me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2011): I was never that interested in the size of a man's penis to be honest, but my current bf is huuuuge, and I do find that it is a turn on to see it. I also admit I like the feeling of being kinda stretched out, although sometimes, when he goes deep, it does hurt. At the end of the day, though, size really isn't everything.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (8 March 2011):
 You'll have to define "well-endowed" for people. Honestly, if men knew how little time we spent thinking about their penises. they'd probably be quite disappointed.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2011): I have an interesting perspective for you...
My husband (currently separated) is very well endowed
My boyfriend is not.
I prefer penetration with boyfriend to penetration with husband.
with husband it's more about the oral aspects.
well endowed means
a. it's harder to give blow jobs
b. it requires much more lube to be comfortable and this hurts hubby's ego
c. being stretched is not pleasant.
and FWIW hubby at 6'4" and 275 as a former pro wrestler is huge compared to 5'7 139 pound BF but BF is more manly than hubby...
it's not all about size in any aspects of life.
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