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anonymous
writes:I'm a 32 yr old female and have a 41 yr old boyfriend. He can go a week or two weeks without sex. Is that crazy? His work schedule is 5am til 9:30pm 3 nights a week. Sad part we stay across the street from 1 another. Reply to this Question
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (30 March 2011):
 Yes, of course - everyone may be different - but single men often have to endure weeks or months between copulative activities. However, I think that you are questioning his seeming disinterest despite your availability. Well, even under that provision, frequency can vary from man to man, and can depend upon prevalent circumstances. For instance, there have been times in my life when business, career or artistic pressures tended to dull my need for frequent coitus, while at other times my interest was akin to that of a horny male rabbit.
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reader, AngelofLove  +, writes (30 March 2011):
 In general terms men's libido is at best when they are 19, whilst in women it is much later (35-40).
But sex drive is an individual thing. Some people like more than others.
In answer to your question, yes it is normal. Question is is it enough for you? My guess is not otherwise you would not be asking the question.
You do not mention how long have you had a relationship with your boyfriend. This matters because after the honeymoon period of 6 months in a relationship, the fresh excitement slows down a bit.
Specially for most men as they are physical beings.
Even though your boyfriend only works 3 days per week, they are long shifts and his body clock may take up to a week to recover even when he is not working.
What you can do? Let him have a rest for a while to recharge his batteries, abstain from sex for at least 2 weeks so he does not feel under pressure.
Then arrange for a sexy evening, sexy underwear and make it a night to remember by spicing it up. Like dressing up and satisfy one of his fantasies.
In a long term relationship it can be possible to keep passion alive but it requires a little effort, imagination, fantasy and fun.
Hope it helps
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2011): just go for it i bet u r pretty and hes not going to push u away
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