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*lfredo1400
writes:Ok so I have this coworker. I've been attracted to her from the first time I saw her. The second day I started working their I got her number but we never got to anything serious becuz she switched to nite shift. Then she called me the other day for a ride and then we randomly ended up going to the amusement parks. We had so much fun and been inseperable ever sense. She tells me she only sees me as a friend but were always hugged up and talking and she even "accidentally" walks naked around me. She has a bf bur she told him I'm her cuzin so that we could hang out. And wen I ask her on advice on girls she always beggs me not to sleep wit them cuz she says their just his and their Gina give me an STD. I've had alot of girls n my life but I can honestly say this is the first time I liked one this much. She's like my best friend. I no I could get wit her. The only problem is she has a son and I'm only 19 I dnt think im ready for kids. Especially if their not mines. So my question is do y'all how do u think she feels about me and eat should I do about it
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reader, Sincerely Yours +, writes (30 March 2011):
 As far as the kid goes...
It is possible for you to be with her without having the responsibility of her kid. I think soemthing that's so sad about single moms is they are sometimes treated like a plague.. something to avoid because they have a child. They are just like anyone else, except one sperm interacted wiht on of her eggs and now she is growing up faster than she'd like.
If you like her, then your focus should remain on her and not her family. You'll cross that bridge when you get to it.
But one thing you should be concerned about is her loyalty. She does not seem like she's being 100% emotionally loyal to her bf and you should consider that trait in someone you are dating. If she wants you over him, she should break up with him, if she likes you but wants him ore, she should stop talking to you to avoid temptation. I believe what she's doing now is involving no will power, bec ause I do believe she likes you but likes him more and/or is more comfortable with him.
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reader, misLadYd..  +, writes (30 March 2011):
 she likes you but its not goin to work as you r not ready for kids an she has a kid.just forget abowt her.
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