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writes:Does this make me or him the selfish one here?So im in a LDR and we talk everyday, miss one day and we kinda miss each other and 2 days is just hell.Anyways...I talked to him for a little while on saturday and on sunday he was a no show...didnt think to much into it. Last night i get home and find out he wasnt and still wont be online because hes really ill and just wants to relax, so i was like ok thats fine.Thing is though im not feeling good either ive had for the entire day a headache that stings in your forehead and whenever you lie down hurts much much more and same when you close your eyes preventing me from sleeping and ive also been feeling aswell as actually being sick all day and was really really emotional, but i did not mention to him cuz well he wasnt online.Then he did come online...and I figured ok he's ill im not gonna tell him i am too cuz im sure he loves me enough to not be a dick to me. Well I was kinda wrong cuz at one point he runs out to the bathroom with a nose bleed and when he came back i was like i feel so useless cuz im not even there to like give you a hug and his reply was a hug wont help me. and then some more convo happened and i was feeling pretty well useless and he wasnt being the nicest in his answers and then he goes ok i need to lie down and im like ok then he goes and by this point my headache was unbearable and with being all emotional i start crying, turns out he had took his headset out and heard me, came back and was like wtf why u crying and i was like it doesnt matter, its not important and he says ok so im the one whose sick here yet your the one that goes and crys, its not always about you then he ended the call and went offline.I then left him a message on msn calling him an asshole for doing that and explained that im ill too and then was like ok yeah ive hung up on you before but ive never went offline too.But he hasnt been online since and ive slept for like an hour but i feel soo guilty now...i feel like ive done something wrong but i dont actually know, have i? should i have just molly-coddled him or what idk.
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reader, Adorskable  +, writes (29 March 2011):
 Man turn into babies when they are sick. Just give it time have him call or message you, this way he will learn that its not nice to treat people bad just cause your not feeling your best.
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reader, mizz.butterflies  +, writes (29 March 2011):
 u were hypersensitive. just give it a rest. let him chase u.
dont go online for like a week. make him wonder.
he's a typical man who is being a d*ck when he knows the girl allows him to be one.
u shouldnt have left that message on msn.
the silent treatment always works better and nobody can blame u for being rude.
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