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writes:Dear all my h/b has cheated several times in the past but he promised that he will never cheat again since i had found out, we are talking all though our marraige he has been cheating can he truley stop ?He says he loves me and he was selfish and he did nt think he would get caught.I have tried to forget and move on but i have no trust in him we argue now but never did before he has become abusive sometimes he will hit me other times he will smash up things but he always sorry after.I did go into a refudge but went back after 2 weeks,things are still the same i feel that as long as i go along with him all is well as soon as i disagree he changes, i told him on saturday that our marraige is over and i have been sleeping on a sofa.i have no where to go i have no friends or family i can turn to.He says he does not want to end our marriage but he is not doing or showing me that he wants me .Deep down i know we need to split but im afraid i have no one no job no self worth nothing and would be heart broken to know he would be in another ralationship why do i feel like this ?when i say to him that he has always been a cheater he says was not no more.He says now that if i dont want to say married to him he is not going to get me anything i need to get a job i have tried i have not been out on my own for 3 years since all came to light i need sleeping tablets to get to sleep i am so depressed but i dont know what to do please give me some advice.do u think refudge will take me again after going back to him ?i ty for any replies xx
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reader, JB. +, writes (29 March 2011):
I honestly believe you should end it. I have never been married and am not any where near the right time for getting married. However, the way I look at relationships is that you should get on chance with a person and if you blow it by cheating you should not be forgiven. Especially if your husband is abusive! Any man who hits his wife or any female for that matter is a disgrace. It is just simply unacceptable.If I were you I'd just leave and just find anywhere you can to be away from him. After a while you should be able to find a job or at least benefits and a home for a start. Once you get back on your feet surely you'll be more confident in yourself and hopefully a happier person.Hope this helped and good luck. :)If you need to talk further do not hesitate to mail me.
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reader, JB. +, writes (29 March 2011):
I honestly believe you should end it. I have never been married and am not any where near the right time for getting married. However, the way I look at relationships is that you should get on chance with a person and if you blow it by cheating you should not be forgiven. Especially if your husband is abusive! Any man who hits his wife or any female for that matter is a disgrace. It is just simply unacceptable.If I were you I'd just leave and just find anywhere you can to be away from him. After a while you should be able to find a job or at least benefits and a home for a start. Once you get back on your feet surely you'll be more confident in yourself and hopefully a happier person.Hope this helped and good luck. :)If you need to talk further do not hesitate to mail me.
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