A
male
age
30-35,
*carlet420
writes:she was my best friend in school...met her after 6 yrs..now we are in a relation for about 5 months.we like each other a lot. she clearly loves me, but doesnt say so [very rarely she tells].she justifies if she says "i love you" she has to keep up, but she's worried about her parents [she just want to be safe].another guy loves her, maybe she got a history with him before meeting me again. she occasionaly talks with him [she says friendly]..i told that worries me, she scolded me and warned me she will not talk with me! and says he dont mean anything to her.we were so needy in the begining. talked 24/7! now she takes a lot of space; gives some reason for not available [i know most are true]. still loves me, says she can't fully commit herself to me.as she can't be trusted..its a distant relationship.we met some 3-4 times, had a date ending with a kiss in public [for which she says she is not happy now!]. she said she needed time,when i asked her again, she said she was about to accept my proposal, but not suddnly sure about it! says she planning to fully commit to me after her college days are over [2 months]. she is a very good girl, caring and understnding beautiful, cant miss her, but very unstable, even she regrets about it.she talks[not much] with a lot of guys class mates n guy friends.she often says a lot of guys love her, some even tried sucide for her![note: on valentin's day, i went to see her, she didnt even come out to see me, said she had work (lie) and not ready to get my valentine's day gift and card, as she is not comited to me and angry on me as i didnt tell my arival before].she keeps teling all her friends i am just a schol friend and she's stil single.scolds me if say my wish to meet her parents after the 1'st month, she talks with me only when she is free and bored[which she refuses].she says she's with me only. sunday i added her as "in a relationship" in facebook-just for fun [i know i did a mistake]..she rejected it- which turned into a big fight...she switched off her mobile,i called her hostel.she scolded for that. she said she needed sometime out'a these- she unfriended me, blocked me..she asked me to wait for a week and that she wil cal next sunday sharp! but when she said this i cut the phone..she kept calling many times..i switched off my mobile...today only i switched it on[no calls from her now, i didnt text/cal] i can keep writing, but please help me...what i am to do?
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