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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Dear cupids, please help!. I have posted a couple of posts on here about my 'boyfriend'. Ive said I dont see him enough even though we live soooo close to each other. He adds girls on facebook everynight, although I do know he not meeting them. He keeps me a secret from his family although that not a huge problem as we only being together 5 month. There is other issues aswell.I keep in there hoping things are going to improve and he will start seeing me more. Should I start saying to him should we do this or that as I never do but I do say about seeing him more.The thing is my ex is texting me and wanting to meet up all the time and has done since we broke up in December.He is so nice to me always, respects me, kind, affectionate and very caring and loving. I broke up with him as he was to needy and clingy and always wanted to be with me. He has told me he would change if we got back together and he probably would as he is that type.Now I just dont know what to do. I know I deserve better than my bf treats me now, its cruel I want to see him more and I really like him. Because when we together it is so good betwen us and how good it could be. He tells me he loves me to bits and talks about the future a bit.Should I stick it out with him and see if things change? Or go back to my ex?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2011): Sounds like maybe you liked all the attention and time the ex wanted to give you. Been in the same exact situation myself. Why would you accept being a secret for even a month let alone 5? Something is shady there let alone disrespectful. You need to be with someone who makes you a priority and wants to be with you as much as they can. That is not the current guy for sure. You deserve better.
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