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36-40,
*epangue1988
writes:I like this guy so much. Sadly, he has no girl friend. A friend of mine likes him a lot though. I had heard so much about him, like he almost courted someone last year but then sadly he was rejected and the girl became the girlfriend of another guy. Well, I think he noticed me because almost all people knew I like him. Last December, he texted me and I was so shocked Because I didn't expect he would find my number. We started texting each other but most of the time, it is I who texts first. Last Feb 14, we went out together with common friends. My hopes were so up that he also had feelings for me but then the next day I heard, though he was off work, that he extended his time to talk to the girl he almost courted a year ago. He even called me NONA , even though that is not my name, when he texted. I told him I'm not Nona but then he said, when I was texting you, I'm thinking of her. More so, I did lose my hope... but then last March 3, we went out, only the two of us, not hoping we would go out accidentally. I helped him choose a polo shirt which he would use for the wedding the next day, we eat together(he paid for it), we watched movie together.. he played on the arcade and he gave the stuff toy he won to me. A day before I resigned in the hospital in which we are both working, we went outside and he treated me with squid balls. He never made a move. We just talk and talk anything under the sun. On the day of my resignation, we went home together. My friends told me to make the first move, because maybe he is shy. so I invited him to go out with me to watch a movie, though he was on a night duty, he went out with me and watch a movie. He spent almost all expenses. I tried to make a move when we were watching movie, but I can't really do it. After the movie, we talked, stroll in the mall, eat and talk a lot. He never made any move...Accidentally, a co worker of ours saw us together and told my friend (who likes him) that we went out. Out of the blue, my friend said I was a traitor. I felt really bad and I told him what my friend had told me and he said he knew she likes him from the start but he only likes her as a friend. After that day, I didn't text him. I deleted his number. I was hoping he'd text me... but then its been 2 days, he didn't bother to text? should I still struggle for him to like me? should I make the first move?
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reader, mizz.butterflies  +, writes (29 March 2011):
 it doesnt matter if he wanna get asked about his personal life.THE MATTER IS....he needs to realize you're not going to put effort in this if he keeps thinking of the other girl.WHY?Because you respect yourself.Chances are he likes you...do what I said....and you will know for sure!
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reader, nepangue1988 +, writes (29 March 2011):
nepangue1988 is verified as being by the original poster of the question should i consider his never had girlfriend since birth a signal for me to move a bit?
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reader, nepangue1988 +, writes (29 March 2011):
nepangue1988 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwhat if im shy? how could i find the opportunity to ask him if we ddnt work at the same workplace anymore? he seem to be the guy who doesnt want to be asked personally on his private life...
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reader, mizz.butterflies +, writes (29 March 2011):
no. dont make the move.
wait until he texts u.
when u meet him
ask him if he still has feelings for the other girl.
tell him u can't come second.
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