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writes: ok so im straight ive been in a relationship for three years, i think i was to have sex with a man im very curious but i don't know what to do? can any one give me any advice on what to do pleaseeeee???HELP!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, countrylover0976  +, writes (1 April 2011):
I can understand where you are coming from. It is not easy rationalizing these feelings as I have been there before. Just take a little time to yourself and decide what is right for you. Cheating, by no means, is not a worthy answer. Finding yourself is a necessity and not an easy task. Sometimes you have to break a heart to find yours, it is not easy but is a necessity to find yours!Good luck and be TRULY happy with yourself.
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reader, Welsh Uncle Dave  +, writes (30 March 2011):
You have a decision to make:
a) stick with your girlfriend and carry on as you and wonder 'what if?' about sex with a man.
b) finish with you're girlfriend, as it is only right, and go and try sex with another man.
What you can't do is stay with her and have sex with other people gay or straight - that is cheating and unfair on her.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (30 March 2011):
You need to decide who you are, and I don't think you can do that whilst you have a girlfriend. It would be very unfair to go out and cheat, or even be with her if you think that you want to do this and need to fin out.
Either you are committed to your girlfriend, or you need to let her go and go experiment and find out who you are.
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reader, Tranquilliser  +, writes (30 March 2011):
Talk to your girlfriend; maybe you can arrange something in the way of a threesome, if she's keen.
Break the subject gently. Perhaps you are bisexual, maybe you are gay and haven't quite realised it. Whatever you do, show your girlfriend respect by including her in your decisions.
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reader, Luv2giveadvice +, writes (30 March 2011):
Hi there,
I think its great that you are choosing to explore your
sexuality. I would start by using chat rooms for bi/gay
men and meet someone who may also be new to it,
and go from there. If you like it, then maybe you can
continue and speak to your gf about it.
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