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writes:MEN what is a man really trying to tell us women when he says lets take a break?
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reader, Black diamond20 +, writes (30 March 2011):
Black diamond20 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks very much all great advice i have been getting the same responses from my friends :)
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reader, ClearEyes +, writes (30 March 2011):
Honestly I told my girlfriend that because I wanted to be free of obligation during my senior week and summer trip. We picked it right back up afterwords on the grounds that we shared any and all sexual encounters that we had during that time. I meant it seriously, lets break and get back together, but I set a timeframe and stuff. I get the feeling that most guys feel the same way BUT girls interpret it as a breakup so that is where it goes.
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reader, Libra1963  +, writes (30 March 2011):
 I am not a man, but I use to get this a lot from an ex boyfriend. He wants to break up but does not want to say so too blatantly for fear of what you may do. He wants to see other women but if things dont work he wants you to be there waiting.
RUN as fast as you can. You could find yourself like me constantly taking breaks and never got anywhere. I eventually ran and am now with someone I never take a break from.
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reader, sebaslookingforward  +, writes (29 March 2011):
For some it's a period of no contact. For others, it's like a break up. Make sure you ask him what he meant before you're heartbroken.However I would not agree to ANY break. Basically he has control of you and will decide whether to go back to you or not. He will be weighting you against other girls, maybe. Not to be negative but accepting a break request means trouble in most cases.
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