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writes:So I'm in class with this girl. I've always thought her to be cute and a crush started to grow. She has a boyfriend so I never thought much into it. We exchanged numbers and started casually txting but as time passed the messages became flirtatious and we both realized we had crushes on one another. It has gotten more serious lately and I dont know what to do. We have done nothing but talk and flirt, I dont want her to cheat but I also would like to be with her. Should I keep doing what I'm doing because I don't want to be lead on? Should I try to make them split up. I would like that but I net don't know if it's right. Am I in the wrong for thinking this? We txt every day but today I decided not to txt her and she hasn't sent me anything it just makes me wonder. Any answers would help. Thanks so much. ;) I need it
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2011): If she likes you enough, she'll break up with her boyfriend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2011): You're both adults, right?Tell her you are attracted to her, tell her what you want (IE: the two of you being a couple), and tell her that, if she feels the same way, this is her chance to say it and do something about it.You're not causing her to cheat, and you're not forcing her to break-up with her boyfriend. You're telling her how you feel and giving her the option to act on it.If she decides to stay with her boyfriend, then you have your answer. If you can still be friends after that, then more power to you.
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reader, Ima FreAk!  +, writes (29 March 2011):
 Hiyaaaaa,
Firstly she has a boyfriends so I don't think you should break them up or let her cheat on him either because it can make you feel like crap!
You stop texting her and she hasn't send you anything that means that your gonna have to do all the work! So it kinda hints that the relationship is not really going to work because if she truly like you or have a "crush" on you than she would put some effort into it but she doesn't so it's not gonna work my love.
I think you should just be her friend any maybe look for someone else because firstly she is taken and secondly you can't experience anything more than friends since she is taken and you might feel guilt afterwards and it's not worth it.
If you really do like her than you can just be her friend and wait for her (that is IF you really like her)!
Hope my advice helps!
Good luck!
Lots of love,
Ima FreAk!
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