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writes:Ok so I'm 14 years old. I have had a boyfriend now for almost 6 months. He is truly amazing! I love him with all my heart and I would do anything fo him. :) The thing is that I'm a virgin however he is not. He has had sex 3 times with the same person about a year ago. He isn't pressuring me or anything into having sex but I know since he has done it before he probably wants to... I don't want to hold him back. The furthest we have gone is 3rd base, and that all happened over a LONG period of time. He has condoms but I am not on birth control. I think I am ready for sex but I'm not quite sure, how do I tell? Does sex hurt your first time? What should I do ay sugestions? :)
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (29 March 2011):
 This will sound cliche' but it's the truth : if you have to wonder whether you are ready for sex or not- then you are surely NOT ready.
When you are ready, you just know it, without doubts- wild horses could not drag you away. And the idea of physical pain somehow will be the last of your concerns. ( To be completely honest : in most cases the pain is very mild and totally bearable ).
Don't ever have sex just to make a man happy , or to keep him interested. Not now nor in future. Do it for YOU- when you feel it's the right time and the right person.
And - go on birth control first !
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