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writes:Ok i have been talking to this boy for a couple of months and the first two were good and then his ex came down from out of town. we were not together so it did not bother me that much then. we stopped talking for three weeks so in Jan we started back talking and of course we have sex and he came out and told me what happened with the ex. so he started coming back around. like three days he will spend with me day and night take me where i have to go. when i call him he sets aside things to be with me. and i still did not trust him cause he has too many friends. so he keeps saying he cares about me and wants me and that i should not worry. so we got into arguments cause he say i always worry about other girls. i have been calling him since last Wednesday. why has he not been answering and then he answered Friday and said we can talk but we cant do extra stuff. and he is going to keep talking to them cause im not his woman so was i a sex friend or someone he did like and i drove him away.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you very much :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2011): It sounds like he just wanted to have sex with you, but made you feel it was something more. Then, when you felt it was something more and expressed how you felt about him spending time with other girls, it really pushed him away.
Honestly, though, I wouldn't be disappointed here. Yes, it feels terrible to feel as though you were used for sex, but in the long run, you don't want a guy who casually hooks up with girls because he wants sex. You want a guy who respects your feelings, right?
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reader, thomas1214  +, writes (30 March 2011):
biggest mistake ever is to have sex before there is a relationship... just saying. you were to easy for him think of it as a way a guy tests you. if you play harder to get then a guy will respect you more and look at you in a different way rather then just something to have fun with a bit..
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