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writes:im a girl aged 16.My problem is that i saw this guy,i just wanted to kiss him the minute i looked at him.Eventualy he came to me and aske to have a word with me.he told me that he liked me but ddnt ask for my number!!after that we stared into each others eyes and lips and he whispered"i want to kiss you".i ddnt show him immediatly that i want to kiss hm 2 bt we kissed for about 3 minutes,it felt so good and i realy felt sumthng 4 hm bsydz jst a kiss(love).the next thing he tells me he has a gf.i realy like hm.plz help Reply to this Question
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (30 March 2011):
 Treat that kiss as an expression that you found each other attractive and nothing more. If you choose to do something beyond that then you are betraying the other girl. You are young so it's a curiosity thing to see if you can love more than one person at the same time and the answer is yes although it's not wise to act out your feelings. Even when you are attached you will be attracted to other people. That's normal. It's very easy to fall in love, but difficult to stay in love. The right thing for him to do is to avoid getting too close to you and he should have warned you beforehand that he had a girlfriend. You had the most beautiful 3 minutes in your life and if I were you I wouldn't have regretted anything. The good moment will be so much better with someone who can truly devote to you. When you say you like him, you put yourself in a powerless situation, like you have to wait for him to leave his girlfriend in order to be happy. What you liked was the chemical reaction you had in your body. You don't really know him. You can decide this is a one time thing, and that you would cherish this brief moment and tuck it someplace in your heart to remember later in life.
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