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writes: [Mod Note: 2 Questions from the same poster have been merged into one]I'm a bit depressed over a recent breakup looking for the best tips to move on. I kind of have been talking to a few girls, is it ok if I'm not over my ex completely? Also, what are somegood movies to watch after a long term relationship break up? I'm depressed.
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reader, RMeg +, writes (29 March 2011):
Break ups are always hard and painful! I suggest you go out often and have a good time, that way you will get your mind off your ex, make sure that all contact with your ex is ended completely ! Keep oin mind that everything happens for a reason.I don't think that talking to other chicks ad getting yourself involved with someone else is a very good idea, get over your ex first!Watch good comedies: Hangover , Due date, any movie that has made you really laugh over the years!!Another thing , try not be alone for a couple of days! Best of luck xx
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reader, shabby-chic +, writes (29 March 2011):
Hi, It is completely normal to feel this way and there are many people in the same boat as you, the key is how you deal with the break up. The best advice I can offer you is to re discover hobbies or things that you enjoy doing and in time your heart will heal. Get a couple of friends together and go out, socialize, meet new people. You have your whole life ahead of you. If you feel as if you're on a path to depression, I would recommend seeking counseling now and not leaving it till later. This allows you to address your feelings in a non judgmental, and confidential setting. P.S; unfortunately, I am unable to recommend any movies, but I advise steering clear of sad movies as this may make you feel even worse. Rather, watch a comedy, have a good laugh, this elevates your mood. There are loads of ladies out there and you certainly wont find them by spending your days on your sofa. Regards,
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