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26-29,
*aurenAmy
writes:basically i have a obsession with my teacher. whenever hes behind me i feel sick and like im going to faint, when i'm in his class i'm quiet but he doesn't notice me? he notices the naughty ones, should i start being naughty? and well to finish this of, i have a picture of him on my phone,should i delete it?please help me, i cant stop theese feelings!xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2011): MY question to you is are you sure hes not flirting with you? I call these men predators. They are very smooth and are desperate for attention. They look like the good guy but I I have a petty good intuition and the fact that hes attracted to the "naughty girls" tells me red light. He's just a teacher not Superman or JC hes just a guy. If hes looking at other girls that dress naughty then he is putting out vibes. Is he married? Double red flag!!! Just remain classy dont get slutty. You will lose respect for yourself if you are out of your own integrity. Ask yourself this-what is at abt him that attracts you ? Take the good qualitie she shas and develop them in yourself.
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reader, LaurenAmy +, writes (30 March 2011):
LaurenAmy is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks to the both of you for your helpxxx
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reader, Libra1963  +, writes (30 March 2011):
 Lots of girls have crushes on their teachers. Its your age and hormones. You will get over it. You dont want to attract attention to yourself, so being naughty is not going to help. You will just look stupid. See him as a friendly teacher. I dont think its appropriate to have a picture of him on your phone. Start talking more to boys your own age.
If you start flirting with this guy you could place him in an awkward position where he may lose his job or leave.
Boost your social life.
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reader, kaykay1989 +, writes (29 March 2011):
 Sweetie everyone has crushes. You have to remember he's your teacher and even if your teacher did show some interest in the wrong way he could lose his job and he wouldn't be able to get a job anywhere else either. I would delete his picture. Don't start playing up and being naughty it attracts the wrong sort of attention, study hard as playing up and being naughty will also effect your education which you will later on regret. xoxoxox
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