What is your opinion on all of this? I don't know whether to go back or not

A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

so my first boyfriend whom i only went out with for 3 months and we were very much in love...this was last year we broke up in june. he is now 'back on the scene' as some people may say. nearly all my friends and family dislike him because of how upset and depressed i was after we broke up. he's been telling me lately that it was the biggest mistake of his life and he tried to fall for someone else and forget his feelings for me however 7months later he still always thinks about me and loves me and can't go another day without me. he said he'll spend the next 50years if thats what it takes trying to prove i can trust him and he's telling the truth. he's changed and i can notice this because i can tell when he's lying. he's telling the truth i hope. but basically what im asking is what is your opinion on all of this? i don't know whether to go back or not. he said he will wait until i finish hsc which is the end of this year. my friend said you can never fully love someone until you love yourself. i suppose thats why i can't fully say that im in love with him. im not sure what to do. any opinions and suggestions would be so greatly appreciated thanks so much!!

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