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writes:A couple months ago my boyfriend broke up with me because he had some issues. He just recently got divorced and he said that he needs to work on things and then be ready for a relationship. We never lost contact (he lives in another city) by phone, mail or messenger and a month later, we saw each other and started things over. We took it slow but safe and we're still together and better than ever. We have talked about moving in together and getting married, but last week I got sick and a little paranoid. I started to feel scared that he would do the same thing before he broke up with me. We have talked about and he says that I’m crazy, that he is 100% with me and had no doubt about it. I understood that but I couldn’t control my feelings. Right now I'm calm and more secure and I trust him, but I don’t know why I feel weird about it and I feel him the same way, I haven’t seen it in 2 weeks and tomorrow he is coming to town.It was our first fight or well misunderstood in our relationship, in 18 months so maybe, the fact that we have never been in t his situation makes everything a little bit strange.. please, help!!
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (4 April 2011):
 Relaxed and open communication is the only way to get the answers you seek. Usually it's good to trust your gut, but you also have to be careful how you react to it. Don't let your emotions control you. Be aware of them, consider what they mean, but allow your reason to control your actions.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI started feeling him the same way as before we broke up, serious, emmm indifferent, I dont know how to explain it but not as we are, and I know that maybe my sickness had something to do with but I got really scared that he was feeling that same way and that he would break up my heart again =$
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reader, dirtball +, writes (1 April 2011):
What were you sick and paranoid about? What triggered you?
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