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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2011): Good sex is when she starts coming back for more.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2011): Good sex is sex that is anticipated, with good feeling, engaged in with good feeling, and afterward you have good feelings about that sexual activity and gives you a good feeling when you remember it, even years later.No guilt, no shame, no fear, no bad feelings, ever. That is good sex.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (1 April 2011):
 Well good sex can mean many things, but it usually means both people have fun doing it and leave very satisfied. Like Dirtball said, you'll know because people will tell you or they'll want to have sex again.
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reader, honestman  +, writes (1 April 2011):
Good sex is the one that you never want it to end.It doesn't matter what you do, even if you don't orgasm or even be penetrated, as long as you feel safe, loved, desired, and you feel trust in your partner. Good sex is about pleasing your partner as much as you can, and not expect anything in return. Sometimes you don't get anything, but sometimes you get a lot just for keeping pleasing your partner. Your partner will be thankful and reciprocate your gestures if you give a lot.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2011): Usually the guy/other person will tell you if it is good. That is how you know. I am not sure what is good sex. Just try to be really into it. Pleasure yourself as well during the sex. As you get more experienced you will learn some tricks and learn how to pleasure yourself and your partner better. You will know how to move around better and what positions set a guy off more than others. The best way to learn is to experiment. Try different positions, different styles, different pace. Ask questions even. Ask the guy your with how to give a hand job or a blow job. Often men give you good tips to learn from.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (1 April 2011):
 Good sex is different for everyone. For me, it also depends on my mood. Sometimes you want to fuck like animals, sometimes you want to passionately make love... They can both be "good" if that's what you're both in the mood for.
How do you know you're good? People tell you, or want repeat performances. ;-)
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reader, IHateWomanBeaters +, writes (1 April 2011):
 That is a good question. The answer is, "It varies from person to person." What is your version of good sex? There are so many types of sex one can have it is ridiculous. My kind of sex is one that illicit the most real and primal response, inducing an emotional connection as there is more interaction between me and my partner. I am going to assume that that is what you would like. That depends on you, trial and error, what you experience, your trust level with your partner, and what you are willing to experience. If you have anymore questions that are more specific, feel free to PM me, and I will definitely be able to answer you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2011): I tried having sex with 3 different guys already. But the best sex that I had was with ex boyfriend. When you have sex with the one that you love you will feel the connection between the both of you. You'll realized that you're having sex because you love him/her not because you just have a lust over them. And in the end of the day you wouldn't regret anything even if you guys broke up.
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