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26-29,
*inAndYang
writes:Dear Cupid,I have a question... It's kind of an awkward question, so I'll just get to the chase. Since I am maturing both mentally and bodily, I have also been experiencing sexuality. Yes, I'm still a virgin and so on, but I feel I get turned on too easily. Dang hormones...I just want to feel like I want to have sex. It's weird sometimes when I'm with my guy buds because I say stuff I don't mean...Anyway, it's very strange for me to feel this way, and it makes me feel like an easy slut. It really gets me down and makes me think I'm not better than any other trashy woman. It's a horrible feeling.So, this is my question, is this normal for a young woman to feel this way? Please answer, and thanks for reading this.Sincerely,Confused
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reader, charliesdevil73 +, writes (1 April 2011):
 It's normal, but as bernard said, you do need to watch what you say. Many men your age will take certain comments as a come on and think you are trying for something. If you do something you may labeled as a slut and if you don't do something you may be labeled as a tease. Neither are good. As you get older and both sexes mature, it won't be so bad. You won't feel so horny for random reasons as much and you learn what is bad to say and what is ok.
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reader, jayokayo  +, writes (1 April 2011):
 thiers is nothing wrong with the feelings you are having, its all part of growing up an body changes. if your mum is easily approachable talk to her or if you have an older sister talk to her or go and see your doctor for advice on your hormone changes. in the meantime be carefull what you say to the lads becuase you will start to give the wrong impressions. remember the guys are going through changes to but they tend not to think with thier heads. p.s your not a slut or trashy your just growing up.
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reader, Sailorhailstorm +, writes (1 April 2011):
 Yes, it is completely normal for a female, especially a young adolescent still going to puberty, to feel this way.
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