A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Dear Cupid: I got married to my husband last year january. He traveled abroad and spent eight months before he came home. Being him a young man, late twenties, he is still struggling to get us a house but for the time being, I am at my dad's and pregnant so is he at his family house. I have been patient enough and recently, he reminds me occasionally that our tradition permits more than 1 wife for males. He tells me he's getting a blackberry because he has many girlfriends and so on. Though he says it jokingly, he stopped me from facebooking while he still does. And he makes night calls because I get his line busy when I try then. I don't know what to think. What do these signs mean? Please help.
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reader, 1990rebecca  +, writes (1 April 2011):
From what you have said it sounds like One of Two things; either
A, he is not being faithful to you, or
B, he wants you to think he's being unfaithful therefore messing with your confidence and trust.
He definitely isn't creating a loving Relationship that you deserve. I'd ask yourself what he does that is positive for you and your relationship because this kind of behaviour is completely out of order (especially if your pregnant!)
You deserve better for your baby and yourself.
Take care.
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