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writes: I like this Guy (lets say A) for the longest time and I plan to tell him eventually, but only to get over him because I know he wont reciprocate. And even if he would, he would be the most hesitant in showing any signs. So I really don't have much hope. I've really tried to Move on, many times, But its hard and of course, at the back of my mind, I just can't stop thinking about this. But I've made myself believe there is someone better out there for me and so, at times it really does work.At times. Anyway so I recently found out that my classmate(lets say,X) liked him too and her behavior towards him now, shows that she has a major thing for him. Like a soft corner. But the thing is that X is already dating someone now. But her mannerisms indicate who she really likes and that's A. She has tried to find out if I like A, because till recently, A and I Always hung out together and so people teased us A LOT. I, frankly wouldn't confess to her about any of this because I don't feel she has good intentions. I guess she somewhat has an idea.She gets very insecure when she sees A and me together and now she makes special efforts to be with him all the time. Seems to me like she wants to replace me. I really feel fighting for someone who maybe won't/doesn't like me, is totally beyond (and more like beneath) me and So I have made a conscious effort to recede to the background. But whenever I see them together, I become so bloody angry and jealous and SNAPPY. I mean its like I've never seen myself like this before. I DON'T want to feel this way and frankly I don't want to give this issue So much importance. But I don't know how to move on. Every time I am a bit successful in nt thinking so much about it, there is still a ray of hope inside me. Its like I am so indecisive, I can't do what is right for me. This has been going on for the Longest time. I need to for MY own sake get over him and not let this bother me. It has consumed me to the extent that the irritation and sadness is spilling into my behavior. PLEASE help with some advise :(And Thanks a lot for reading this dull rant.
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reader, thomas1214  +, writes (1 April 2011):
lets just say you didnt say anything to A like hey do you like me? you just assumed things without finding an answer out..
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