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writes:I have been in a relationshp for 3 and a half years with my boyfriend, who used to be over friendly with other girls and at times very abusive towards me. He always wanted to break up and when I finally agreed to a break up and had moved on, he came back, saying he had realized his mistake and was ready to do anything for me and to have me back. Its been two months now since we are back and though he has changed drastically and is so loving, caring and respectful, I just cannot get love back for him. At times I feel I'm with him because I pity him. What do I do? I can't seem to walk away but neither am I happy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2011): I have been in this exact same situation. i've been with this guy for 2years and i just couldn't love him back although we broke up in august last year and came back together. after two months i left him. because i found someone else i was ready to die for. its been 4months of bliss today. if i did stay with my ex i would have been miserable today. trying to keep something that was already gone. think about it. xoxox
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2011): Just think to ur self, is there really the man i want to spend the rest of my life with. Is this a man I would die for. Would I give up the worlds largest diamond for him.
If all these point to no, then just explain to him that u think u have a different feeling towards him and u still want to remain friends.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2011): There's nothing you can do, you don't love him, you don't want to be with him and you won't walk away.
That's that, you just have to either walk away or stay with this guy for all the wrong reasons and be miserable.
Seeing as you won't leave you just have to settle for being miserable.
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