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*ings_alot_chicky
writes:My bf/ex and I dated for three months broke up then 5 days later he was telling me that he made a mistake, calling me baby and baby girl again, kissing me, saying he wants to marry me and i did nothing to stop it and i feel bad that i let it go on this long.Well i got on facebook and saw he had a gf the five days we werent together and still hasnt broken up with her, so i told him i couldnt be with him if he has a gf and he said he would dump her.... so i gave him a few days to do it and noticed no change, so i decided to tell her what he was doing (we live in Michigan and she in North Carolina.) she got mad at him, dumped him and then got back together with him later that night.it has been going on like this for a few weeks and at this point i am just lost and confused. He tells me he is gonna dump her then on facebook he says he needs time to think and to throw into this mess of drama he says he still likes his ex gf who is also his ex finance. He tells me im the one he wants to be with and he just needs time to think. but im confused about what. and im cofused if were even together anymore. HELP?!
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reader, Dorothy Dix  +, writes (3 April 2011):
Hi there. He seems a bit confused at the moment, doesn't he? This doesn't help you any.
The thing he needs the most now, is space. So just give it to him.
Don't even bother going onto his Facebook page. You'll only torment yourself - seeing things you don't want to see.
Also, avoid texting him or contacting him in any way. Instead let him come to you - when he's ready.
Take care and best wishes.
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