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30-35,
*roken tear
writes:hii and my bf r in a long distance relationshipAnd the cheapest way to connect is messengerWe were chatting alot, like 7 or 8 hours a day in week-ends and summer vacationbut now, he's coming invisible and dnt talk to meso i tried to send him messages on fb and he was answering like after 5 minutes and thats how we started to chat via facebook messeges all the timei was forced to keep on doing that cuz i know that he wont talk on yahoo although i know its not healthy for usi talked to him frankly about that , and i asked him many times to go and chat from messenger but each time he was making a different excuse !i dont know why he is acting like that , i miss our old conversations and i miss talking directly with himWhat to do?
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reader, broken tear +, writes (3 April 2011):
broken tear is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks alot for your wordsThats exactly what i should do
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reader, Thornbirds  +, writes (2 April 2011):
 Have you ever thought that he can't talk to you in Yahoo because he's using it to chat with another one online? If you feel that there's a big decline from 7 to 8 hours down to 5 minutes, then I presume your uneasiness of the situation is valid. Try to back off a little just to check if he will initiate in communicating with you. If he totally disappear from the scene, there's no need for you to exert effort in reaching out for him. To sustain a long distance relationship is a challenge to two people who used to be crazy with one another because a change of heart with either one may happen along the way.. There's no point of blaming if it happens because when the heat has gone cold, what can anyone do except to do fomentation to ease the pain? Cheer up, girl! Love need not to be far.. it's just around.
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