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writes:I met this guy about a month ago. We live 15-20 mins apart, but we haven't hung out since we met. He texts me and calls me everyday, and he works here in my town. I just don't get why we can't hang out. I mean, whats stopping him? I'm starting to feel like he doesn't really like me, but he talks to me all the time. i don't know what to think anymore.
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (2 April 2011):
 Don't get discouraged just yet. I suggested inviting him out to lunch; why don't you do that? Need not be anywhere too expensive......good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThat sucks. :( I really do like this guy. We met through mutual friends at a party. We kissed. We talk pretty consistently since then. The thing that gets me is his friend recently passed away, and I'm the one that he reached out to. Granted he's a guy and wasn't very much into talking about things, but he was like "You need to cheer me up." So i told him i was there for him, but he just kind of withdrew for a few days. Lately he's been having a hard time, so he talks to me. I feel close to him. He calls me "babe" and "beautiful" and all of that. That doesnt really mean anything I know, but Im so confused because he doesn't ever come hang out. One time I did ask him to go out, like in a group, like out bar hopping, but he said he was broke so he couldn't go. I'm kind of getting impatient.
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reader, catcher00 +, writes (1 April 2011):
This is strange. He must not be that interested truthfully. Maybe he has a gf and wants to keep you interested as a backup possibility? Or he's talking to another girl and actually seeing her, but again you're the backup? Maybe he just likes flirting via text and phone, gives his ego a little boost? I'd say after a month he's probably not going to take it very far..at this pace you'd be 88 before a proposal, who needs that indecisive, game playing nonsense?
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (1 April 2011):
Good question. I would suggest that if you want to find out what his level of interest really is that you take the bull by the horns and invite him to go somewhere for lunch with you. See how he responds.
Good luck!
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