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female
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anonymous
writes:hey, i am 16 years old and i recently dumped my boyfriend because i had given up on waiting for him to call me or meet up with me and never seem to tell me the reason why. but when i have a problem that i am upset about he encourages me to talk to him about. i went out with him for a year and 25 days and its been a long time since i actually had a great time with him. his always busy with family, his older brother past away last month and his parents been having a lot of arguments, so has an current older sibling, he has to take responsibilities in his family. after ive dumped him, i feel quilty and realise that i didnt think it through whether i should dump him or not. now ive realised that i should of sat down with him and ask him what is the matter. after ive dumped him, he then told me why he hasnt been contactin me to seeing regulary than before. i miss the days i used to have with him we used to always meet up after school and spend time with eachother. but since we started college, things seemed to be alot worser and have less time to see eachother, although we take a different route to get to college and come back home from college. please help !! :( Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2011): Sometimes we make decisions without really thinking them through, sometimes we do this out of anger hurt or simply frustration of not getting our needs met. He sounds like he's understanding and communicative, however he may be holding some resentment towards you from breaking up with him before.
Talk to him and tell him you miss the things you used to do, try to be supportive as he's going through a lot with his family.. Don't force things in time things should go back to what they were if not then maybe it's time to let go and move forward..
Good luck
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