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female
age
36-40,
*amaof1
writes:I have a 1 yr old with a guy who i have not been with since i was 8 months pregnant. he has treated me the worst i have ever been treated. about 2 weeks ago he seen me hanging out with a guy friend of 8 yrs and now all the sudden wants to marry me. he is saying things i didnt even think were possible to come out of his mouth wonderful great things. he bought me a ring and wants an answer. on the other hand my guy frined of 8 yrs wants to finally see where and what me and him lead to i have always connected with him on some other level everyone including family has always thought we would end up getting married. If we go out anywhere people think we are a married couple. I dont know what to do i would love to try and see if me and the father of my child can make this work and have me him and my baby all together. but i also fianlly have the chance to explore what me and this friend have always wondered in the back of our heads. . I love both of them in differant ways please help! Reply to this Question
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reader, StarryEyes101  +, writes (2 April 2011):
 Hey.
As the saying goes... A baby can have a hundred father's but it will only have one Mother.
If he treated you really bad before when your married there will be no doubt that your life will be hell. Unless he's changed. But I doubt it.
Sure, he has a right to see the baby if he wants too. But I think you should see where it goes with your friend. Being friends for 8yrs there has probably been feelings from the start. Either from you, him or both. If the friend treats you good. You should go with something that makes you feel good and what is right for you and the baby.
I hope this helps =)
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